Finding a date on a hookup service may not lead you to the bed instantly right away. If your date is shy, but you want to let her know that you want to get laid, then these tips are for you
1. Drop Hints During The Night
Don't be ashamed about wanting to have sex with someone. It's seriously a very nice compliment. You think someone is great enough to want to share your body with them! Good for both of you! When you feel confident about your decisions, it's way easier to drop flirtatious hints throughout the night. Compliment her on the way she looks, let her know that she is attractive. Be unabashed about paying attention to her, because really, what do you have to lose? The worst case scenario is you'll never see her again.
2. Ask her whether she has plans in the morning
If you're going out with a school teacher who literally has to get up at 6 a.m., then you might be out of luck tonight. But if you're going out on a Friday, find out your date's schedule to see whether or not she has plans in the morning. If she responds by saying that she has to get up early in the morning, then that's a signal that you need to cool your jets a bit. They might want to take things a bit slower than you do, and you have to respect her space! But if she says that she is free all day, then she could be just as down as you are.
3. Initiate Touch
If you're feeling a bit shy and don't want to be vocal about sex, touch your date's upper arm or the back of her hand to initiate contact. It's a low-pressure way to let her know that you are interested in physically connecting with her, without having to spell it out completely.
