Great hookups and one-night stands can be a challenge to pull off because plenty of things can go wrong between the first hello and the next day. However, with the right attitude, proper preparation, and a boost in self-confidence, a great hookup can be yours. Start with the following ten tips and get ready for some intense and exciting casual sex!
1. Look your best, be your best
The vast majority of women looking for a hookup are judging potential partners mostly on their looks and then their personality. Prepare yourself by cleaning up and dressing well in stylish clothes so you look good from across the room. Whether she approaches you or you approach her, smile, be pleasant and friendly. Show interest in her and what she has to say.
2. Get to know each other
Before jumping into bed, take some time to get to know each other a bit. No need to exchange detailed personal information, but find out a little about your potential partner. Now is a great time to ask about her fantasies, it can get the mood rolling early and give you some idea about what she might be interesting in doing later
3. Mutual respect
Even for a hookup or one-night stand, treat your partner with respect and dignity. You are both in it for enjoyment, so enjoy but be respectful. Treat them like you want to be treated.
4. Make it enjoyable for her too!
Many men look at a hookup only as one dimensional, only for their pleasure and satisfaction. Remember there are two of you in bed. Ask her what she likes and give her some special attention too. If she is enjoying herself, you will have a better time too.
5. Spend some time afterward
Don’t just head out the door once the activities are over. Ask her if she wants to spend more time together. Women more than men often prefer to spend time together afterward. Even if its simply falling asleep together for the night, spend the night and enjoy some non-sexual time together before leaving with grace and dignity.
6. Be honest
Be honest with yourself about what you expect and desire. Ask her the same. Knowing up front what both of you expect will help eliminate hurt feelings and disappointments later. If you are not looking for anything more than a hookup, let her know.
7. Be prepared
Bring a condom or two with you so you are ready for action. There is no reason to not be prepared and risk contracting an STD or having an unplanned pregnancy. Be smart – be prepared.
8. Be open to more
If the two of you hit it off and you think there might be something more, be open to the idea. Your partner may or may not feel the same way, but let them know and be ready to accept their response either way.
